#.Are you the reason for children's deterioration?

#.Are you the reason for children's deterioration?

       ( Rakesh Pratyush Gupta TGT, Maths )

                                           [ Child Psychologist ]

Sometimes parents complain that the child has deteriorated a lot. Among the many reasons for children's deterioration, some are created by the parents themselves. However, many times the parents themselves are not aware and their child gets spoiled due to some carelessness or habit of theirs. Here we are telling you about those things or habits of parents due to which children get spoiled, but parents are not even aware of it.

       *  Mean and Violent Behaviour :

Children observe everything around them and then learn from it. Children pay the most attention to their parents. If parents ignore their child's feelings or behave badly when they are angry, the child may feel that it is okay to be mean or violent or yell. Do not ignore the child's emotions and tell him the right and better way to deal with his emotions.

                    * Disrespecting others :

Children learn by example and when their parents disrespect others, the children also adopt this habit. If you talk rudely to a neighbor or a family member, the child will also adopt this behavior after seeing you. You should respect others and show kindness in front of you.

                               * Ignore the child :

The child needs to be accepted as he is and his appearance should also be given importance. When parents are unable to accept what their child is or understand his likes, dislikes or characteristics, it creates a sense of inferiority in the child. You should maintain such an environment in your home, where the child's self- esteem increases.

                                * Promote Dishonesty :

Many times when children commit a mistake and admit it by speaking the truth, the parents simply see their mistake and yell at them. Due to this, the child starts shying away from telling the truth and starts leaning towards lies and dishonesty. You should talk to your child calmly and help him solve his problems and learn from his mistakes.

                                    * Loose  Motivation :

Parents want their child to progress and in this regard they put a lot of pressure on their child. When achieving success is everything, it puts pressure on the child and causes stress. Due to this, all his motivation starts to end. Instead, parents should support their child's efforts and interests.